doing nothing?
Harumph. I woke up feeling worse today than I did at the end of yesterday. My throat hurts; my body feels exhausted; and I keep coughing up a lung. It’s quite attractive I tell you. Looks like today will be a day on the couch with the little girl beside me. Sometimes being sick isn’t so bad. I try to focus on the positive. Like the fact I…
…get to stay in PJs all day without a care in the world.
I laughed when I put these on because M’s eyes lit up. “Ooohh! Mommy. Piiiinnnnk pants!” I guess to her they show more class than my typical workout clothes I live in? Who am I to deny her opinion?
I also get to watch a bunch of Friends during her nap.
Friends always makes me feel better. I will forever claim this show as my favorite. And I want to know where my Friends The Movie is? They had two Sex & The City movies after all.
I have free reign to eat all the yoatgurt parfaits my heart desires.
They smooth my firey throat quite well. I admit they were a second choice…but Yogli Mogli won’t deliver. I can get food from China on my doorstep but not frozen yogurt. Something wrong with that. 😉
Basically, my body forces me to take more chill time. I typically go go go from the first moment I wake. How sad that illness has to make me slow down? It reminds me of a particular moment in Eat, Pray, Love.
…Americans have an inability to relax into sheer pleasure. Ours is an entertainment-seeking nation, but not necessarily a pleasure seeking one. Americans spend billions to keep themselves amused…but that’s not the same as quiet enjoyment…We all inevitably work too hard, then we get burned out and have to spend the whole weekend in our pajamas, eating cereal straight out of the box and staring at the TV in a mild coma (which is the opposite of working, yes, but not exactly the same thing as pleasure). Americans don’t really know how to do nothing.
I agree with that. To an extent. I will be the first to admit that I don’t really know how to do nothing. The closest to that I come is my morning 20-30 minutes of prayer and Bible reading. But I would not describe it as nothing. I’m still reading and studying and communicating. Also, when I think of doing nothing it doesn’t really connate pleasure for me. I like reading, looking at blogs, talking to someone I care for on the phone, playing with my daughter, curling up on the couch with my husband and a movie, etc in those precious spare moments I can grasp.

Do I enjoy those things because that’s all I know in a society of doing and feel a need to fill time? Or do I enjoy them because they truly give me more pleasure than sitting with my thoughts? Is it wrong to want to fill time if those things increase your happiness? While I do understand the importance of taking a break from daily stresses, I don’t know how I feel about the need to do nothing. Maybe one day I’ll know. But not today…because I know when sick I’ll be distracting myself any way I can. 😉
- What do you do to feel better when sick?
- How do you feel about doing absolutely nothing like described in EPL?







