the Man Who Makes It Happen
Sunday night we had a very special night.
A very special night indeed.
Our family certainly has its fair share of eccentricities, but I assure you dressing up in random costumes doesn’t happen every year. Only for certain celebrations.
And celebrating 90 years of extraordinary life warrants some excess eccentricity in this family – complete with costumes and a 40s themed surprise party in honor of our beloved G-Pa. Boy, was he surprised!
My aunt has spent months planning this surprise party to honor G-Pa for his upcoming 90th birthday. She coordinated an entire theme around the 40s, my grandfather’s favorite time period and the “high time of his life”. We had mini gin martinis with olives – his signature drink, “brandy” and card tables, Sinatra, Navy memorabilia, old photos, and a spread of food apparently popular in the 40s.
We started the night with the drinks and some appetizers. Gin martinis aren’t my thing so I stuck with water and tea. I also snagged a small appetizer plate of pickles, a few olives, mini-meatballs, an old style “pig in a blanket”, cheese and crackers, a pimento cheese celery stick, and shrimp cocktail.
Then, we settled in for story time. My aunt had crafted a speech of sorts to go through various memories of my G-Pa’s life. It went all the way from his childhood through moments we have shared in recent years. Everyone had a part.
My sister, cousin, and I got to recreate one of our most hilarious memories with G-Pa – the year of Hank’s Hoes!
Back story: The condos we stay in have footage of the entrance available for people to watch. Some “old bitties”, as my grandfather calls them, will watch this channel religiously to know the ins and outs of condo happenings. A few years ago, they saw my sister, cousin, and I come in from karaoke in jean skirts and tank tops and get off on the floor where our family stays. The following morning they reported to the managers that my grandfather had hired some hookers to come visit him – aka US.
We found it so hilarious that we decided to give the women something to really talk about. Us three girls dressed up with cut-off shirts, red bras, super short jean skirts, high heels, and over the top makeup. G-Pa then took us down right in front of the cameras, gave us each a bunch of cash, kissed us on the cheek, and sent us on our way. He then proceeded to tell everyone about how his three women left with a smile on their face. We stirred up a ruckus with that one, but the manager loves our family so much he just kept quiet and said he couldn’t judge our grandfather when the complaints started coming in. Hehe. I love that man and celebrating the years with him will no doubt remain the highlight of our trip this week.
Having the chance to honor him with a party highlights this trip. The many years and memories we have here at this beach would not be possible without him. He actually pays for our entire family to come here each year. He treats us to dinner every night. He laughs, loves, and inspires us through it all. I can only hope to live as full a life as he has.
- If you had a themed party, what theme would you choose? I would probably go with the 80s…or a FRIENDS theme. I love that show too much.




